# Responding to Attention-Seeking With Connection

Auggie’s Auggie's Back to School Giveaway is happening!

## The group chat summary

We loved coming together for _Responding to Attention-Seeking With Connection_ with [Suzie Foger](/content/experts/empowernting/index.html). This conversation offered such a grounded, compassionate reminder that attention-seeking behavior is often a child’s way of asking for connection, support, and reassurance. Together, we explored how shifting our perspective can help us respond with more clarity, calm, and intention in everyday parenting moments.

💚 Attention-seeking behavior as communication

- Suzie encouraged parents to reframe “attention-seeking” as a sign of an unmet need, not just misbehavior
- A child’s behavior may be driven by a desire for belonging, significance, connection, or reassurance
- One helpful starting point is noticing your own emotional response with curiosity