# Bringing Up Boys Guide Welcome to my guide! You'll find resources for raising boys with positive masculinity, along with some of my most-used products. ## Recommendations (20) ### Recommended (11) NFTX Superhero Capes [Buy from Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/NFTX-Superhero-Christmas-Costume-Birthday/dp/B0CJLHL363/ref=sr_1_5?crid=2FP4YJ2K2E392&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.bRAiqdWFeCdq34gThvtcWismt4Xew9aAXpELM1J9VHqCiKxMaxxhIGSQ0HjSjZ6mDRCnlSW08CqRy_s-g3K-Ji-TQY7rRUJp0ogkG8KLyGmOBt2RhEU0mDnNBRRxWm6kcffDDKxlI17ajBXKUXhfWWSDSaeW7ritT5JomdWyWKRzyCfiHIdQuadQcejSI-4iCJ76Tm42uHfp2b70EQj5C0GDHo6jXGHE3zNd2j0egvhF2yU8BKOtP5jo8F7N3nI0NCbJkZyRQ153NeQxZLPoyZ2QZ3ctElPR4tb8JrItITA.YwqCUsYFFda37sK8_Ed8Oq1549AP8sUAw36LxQXgw88&dib_tag=se&keywords=nftx+superhero+capes&qid=1719327399&sprefix=nftx+superhero+capes+%2Caps%2C126&sr=8-5&tag=spots05d-20&linkCode=ogi&th=1&psc=1) 1 recommendation *“Young kids love to dress up in costumes, and enabling boys to dress up in whatever costume they want encourages creativity, empathy, and emotional expression, while challenging gender stereotypes. This helps boys develop a balanced sense of identity that values kindness, cooperation, and inclusivity.”* LEVOIT Classic300S Ultrasonic Smart Top Fill Humidifier $69.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/3PsvL4o) 1 recommendation *“We use this humidifier every day during the winter and also when our son is sick during the warmer months. It has a sleep setting that is automatic so that the room remains at prime humidity throughout the night while your babe is asleep.”* Susan Verde [I am me](https://www.amazon.com/Am-Me-Book-Authenticity-Books/dp/1419746480/ref=sr_1_1?crid=380T2R5FX5DWY&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.zbDfvy3p21sR4c25FSNNiPiqkqhV-VwlawmSvFY2LKk3NS8O81lNbc8nTyEoWVw1ZhvZqDorW-MLwfw48VhQ8N6fatsqM47vmo83AQvsLOBCAT0k9HxiQhHezMzLjxUmOpSAoGce_oESmPTRVtHNlEskOV04oEv5WXyD7m3MT3sN-jSw03owmp7G7MmH38IAsTWSxYGRa0HD7RsB2iLXjcz4L7tj0Vu9yvzeXcYMz2c.x0w82Z0VzpEKGe6qmVuuqP5hpi0EZtYAnawy0jCjx60&dib_tag=se&keywords=I+am+me+book&qid=1719323508&sprefix=i+am+me+boo%2Caps%2C533&sr=8-1&tag=spots05d-20) 1 recommendation *“This book promotes positive masculinity by encouraging boys to embrace their unique qualities and express their emotions freely, challenging traditional stereotypes. It fosters self-acceptance and emotional intelligence, showing that it's healthy for boys to experience a wide range of feelings.”* Robb Pearlman [Pink is for boys](https://www.amazon.com/Pink-Boys-Robb-Pearlman/dp/0762475528/ref=asc_df_0762475528/?tag=spots05d-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=475691967783&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=750384728215354522&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9004077&hvtargid=pla-1016948586213&psc=1&mcid=a9cd5c1c951b37399342ebcfd9aa36ec&gclid=CjwKCAjw5v2wBhBrEiwAXDDoJSk8g57QxUmZmKQCBGcZA4v1-Y1pEbzMDIR1exWT9s_Su1vsGqgkGhoCW1wQAvD_BwE) 1 recommendation *“This book reframes the stereotypical blue/pink gender binary and empowers kids to express themselves and to enjoy whatever they love to do.”* hannah andersson boys briefs [Buy from hannah andersson](https://www.hannaandersson.com/boys-clothing-underwear/58662-1MT.html?dwvar_58662-1MT_color=1MT&cgid=) 1 recommendation *“Not only are these so soft and hold up so well in the wash, but I love that they have so many different patterns and colors that aren't too obviously gendered.”* Karamo Brown [I am Okay to Feel](https://www.amazon.com/Am-Okay-Feel-Karamo-Brown/dp/1638930104/ref=sr_1_1?crid=9KL1ZF3ERR04&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.JuQKL0zdZAQDN5BzQz3nFQxomrdWzjMKXQabZ4V1Th2jiIY1EkL19b7QKJJ3OUwDJANtRMSz8sSSWxMytK8OF7IJtZnpuJnstbwL20koqbSp-0AFLd9JJLIRx-GbeUZOB34UUhlnw7geEfvgd-B5t3VLzAkDimqhyX-zOdGQoOvC9Drs_C5Ai1v94aH43fNzihzNK2_AOXcdlxLS_OhIWR30zRQBZDS5pXvjpOkk17g.1xDW_VJLrP11O41nn5NJ8EJOk6Y7asm5BD0_ITZw0Rg&dib_tag=se&keywords=i+am+okay+to+feel&qid=1714046262&sprefix=i+am+okay+to+%2Caps%2C71&sr=8-1&tag=spots05d-20) 1 recommendation *“This book is one of my favorites to read to my son as it's absolutely adorable and a great example of positive masculinity.”* Thought-Spot I Know What to Do Flipbook $18.95 [Buy from Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Thought-Spot-Know-Feeling-Moods-Products/dp/B07D4NSSY9/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=20VV624ZOZOUC&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.6Dqd4DiMKyiGtwWs_DrGijoLOGsQGHAY_jxu6SuP8e5_no9TDY5f48PP3Cmq4w8RaX8HC6zb9Bs3sxAQnnOOnIqBGV98i5ps2-RDNJSo83YrfSqK657sg0bHBGNUvY5AlL82mR10ilfLLjyCkzv203xgU4JzzDjjMGswy9a5ubXYUAmqzqSr6QKC2KydArL3fd-npGO3oDWgOqEjbYNGCa2jHuquhlhZVlvErSgI09inwWQ_cce3_Om-TGc1KWQZVeI93_D2kx6p54kBg_jMNKA-xreusrYuGbaoFWrErKY.odweS6U7rowoGcTKpztyqp1jMmUhmTEOYparStq19Dw&dib_tag=se&keywords=kids%2Bemotions%2Bchart&qid=1713988786&sprefix=kids%2Bemotions%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-2-spons&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGY&th=1&tag=spots05d-20&linkCode=ogi&psc=1) 1 recommendation *“This is a great tool for parents or teachers to use for their young boys who are on a journey to understand and regulate their emotions.”* IKEA RASKOG Utility Cart [Buy from IKEA](https://www.ikea.com/us/en/p/raskog-utility-cart-white-20382932/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=surfaces&utm_campaign=shopping_feed&utm_content=free_google_shopping_clicks_Kitchen&gad_source=1) 1 recommendation *“This has been a life saver over the years. When my son was a newborn, I used this mainly for my breast pump and all materials related to feeding. I could wheel it around with me wherever I went. Since then, it has been used for various toy storage and is always one of the most useful items in my home. I love that it is small enough to kind of disappear, and that it's portable enough to go wherever I need it.”* THERMOS FUNTAINER Water Bottle with Straw - 12 Ounce $18.25 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/3J8vbFa) 1 recommendation *“A great water bottle that's lightweight and keeps water cold. On top of that, I like how many options the brand has for colors and characters, allowing for self expression.”* Loog Mini Acoustic Guitar [Buy from Loog](https://loogguitars.com/products/loog-mini-kids-guitar) 1 recommendation *“For the music lovers out there, your kid can actually learn how to play the guitar! This is perfect for kiddos because of the size, light weight, and 3-string design, which allows kids as young as 3 to learn chords and basic skills. There's also an app with video lessons and chord diagrams to help them enjoy learning. Engaging in music helps boys develop empathy, sensitivity, and creativity - allowing them to explore and express their individuality in a positive and constructive manner.”* Bringing Up Boys [Buy from Bringing up Boys](https://www.bringingupboysbetter.com/) 1 recommendation *“This is my product, and your ultimate roadmap for raising the next generation of men. I combine real-life parenting experiences with my expertise in and commitment to dismantling toxic masculinity. Bringing Up Boys supports boy parents in raising compassionate, empathetic, expressive, and strong men.”* ### Mattresses (1) Helix Kid Mattress [Buy from Helix](https://helixsleep.com/products/kids?g_keywordid=kwd-1601476458360&g_campaignid=19646327747&g_acctid=989-604-6404&g_adgroupid=148316215640&g_adid=687218977663&g_network=g&g_keyword=helix%20kids%20mattress&g_adtype=search&g_campaign=US%7CHELIX%7CPS%7CB%7CEXT%7CKids&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwh4-wBhB3EiwAeJsppJxlqkVSJ6YL-k4rIbL4NVFy1pT6tUzEOrCkCuCvnl_P7cHllTihhxoClJ8QAvD_BwE) 1 recommendation *“We just bought this for our son's first "big kid bed" and it is amazing quality. It also has two sides: a firmer side for kids 3-7, and a softer side for kids 8-12!”* ### Swaddles & Wearable Blankets (1) HALO 100% Cotton Sleepsack Swaddle $29.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/HALO-SleepSack-Cotton-Swaddle-Newborn/dp/B001D7E0YQ?ref=dlx_prime_dg_dcl_B001D7E0YQ_dt_sl7_4a&th=1&tag=spots05d-20&linkCode=ogi&psc=1) 1 recommendation *“Something I used daily for my son for a good 2 years. We started with the velcro sacks and then moved to the regular Halo sleep sacks.”* ### Sound Machines & Soothers (2) LittleHippo Mella: Ready to Rise Children's Sleep Trainer $49.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/46Uumta) 1 recommendation *“Your toddler definitely needs to be ready for this clock in order for it to be useful, but at age 3, it works really well for my son and has helped him understand when it's time to go to sleep and when it's time to wake up. It's also super cute.”* Yogasleep Hushh Portable White Noise Sound Machine $23.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/3uNa4oy) 1 recommendation *“Portable and affordable.”* ### Changing Pad Covers (1) Peebuddies Diaper Changing Cover $29.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/Organic-Peebuddies-3-Pack-Easy-use/dp/B0BS38Q2K1/ref=asc_df_B09S9TNVBK/?tag=spots05d-20&linkCode=ogi&hvadid=632484252427&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=13018559463843102649&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9004077&hvtargid=pla-1920267364255&mcid=b88b5b9737fd33c393a438eb33500ab6&gclid=CjwKCAjw5v2wBhBrEiwAXDDoJaRUDZ7NKhg1C7SQI2Zpj5wscxM4NdW_OrbtTQt7C3lqe8LpFm0wPhoCn-AQAvD_BwE&th=1&psc=1) 1 recommendation *“Changing newborn boys' diapers can be extra messy. These help!”* ### Diaper Creams (1) Eucerin Baby Eczema Relief Body Cream $9.77 [Buy from Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00GMZUS2M?psc=1&tag=spots05d-20&th=1&linkCode=ogi) 1 recommendation *“My son has had eczema for most of his life, and this is by far my favorite lotion I've tried for him.”* ### Towels, Robes & Washcloths (1) Baby Washcloths- Hypoallergenic (HIPHOP PANDA) $14.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/3JMzghk) 1 recommendation *“The softest washcloths--I've used them for 3 years now.”* ### Activity Centers (1) Boon Pivot Toddler Tower $119.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/4aTGUUI) 1 recommendation *“Toddler step stools are amazing for promoting positive masculinity by encouraging boys to participate in cooking and household tasks.”* ### Pacifiers & Accessories (1) GROWNSY Electric Nasal Aspirator $39.99 [Buy from Amazon](https://amzn.to/3Rsn9ek) 1 recommendation *“The non-electric ones just don't cut it!”*